Sending appreciation to my fatherly teammates.

I just wanted to take a break from hyper focus on real estate to salute Russell, the only member of our team who’s a biological father, and to Lee, who has helped raise three stepsons. I’ve learned a lot watching the two of them over the past decade-plus, as Sierra Mangum, my two sons, and Lee’s adult stepson have grown into having adult issues and moved out into the world. Talking to Russell about his daughter has always been a joy to me; he wants the best for her and will do anything to be there for her. Lee has encouraged both of my boys in their passions, especially the musician, with whom he has that passion in common.

Will these guys stop being paternal? Nope. But, none of us (even non-fathers) stop being paternal, I think. Those new investors we mentor, the prospective home sellers we counsel,  and all the people who turn to  us for wisdom and advice benefit from “fatherly” impulses within us.

The cover photo to Lees upcoming book, which isnt written yet.

While I certainly do think of Lee’s and my late fathers as the primary father figures in my life, I think back on others who’ve shaped me by listening, providing advice, but then giving me the chance to go out and prove myself. They hold a special place in my heart and mind.

An organization I used to work for focused on mothers, and maternal acts of love and service, but maintained that the father’s role is equally important. I think they had a good point, though I’ve seen many different kinds of relatives, friends, and acquaintances in this “fatherly” role.

Russell, thinking about his next book topic.

Whether it’s in your role as a real estate redeveloper, or in some other part of your life, treasure those who shape you and encourage you to test your wings in the big, wide world. And thank them, today or any day! Shoot, thank them every day if  you want to. It won’t hurt one bit.